It is hard for those of us outside
We Westerners are familiar with Goth fashion: head-to-toe black, crosses and skulls, veils, general ghoulishness. Lolita, in contrast, conjures up a child decked in pastels and over-the-top ruffles. Gothic Lolita is not so much a combination but interplay between the two aesthetics. The resulting look is unique and very compelling.
GOTHIC LOLITA.
Achromatic colors, bell-shaped frilled skirts, high-collared Victorian blouses? Looks like Goth Loli to me. DESIGNERS: Moi-même-Moitié, Black Peace Now,
Alice Auaa, MA/MAM, Visible, Miho Matsuda.
Gothic Lolita fashion is widespread in
SWEET/COUNTRY LOLITA.
Sweet Lolita outfits are distinguished by cutesy prints, baby colors, and frills galore. Country Lolis incorporate straw hats and gingham. DESIGNERS: Baby, The Star Shine Bright, Metamorphose temp de fille, Angelic Pretty, Mary Magdalene.
CLASSIC/ARISTOCRAT LOLITA. 
Classic Lolita is a more subdued look that falls between Sweet and Gothic; it is less girlish, less ghoulish, and uses colors such as blue and red. Aristocrat Lolita is an elegant, mature version with Victorian/Edwardian accents and a streamlined silhouette. The above image is a stunning Aristocrat Loli look. DESIGNERS: Innocent World, Victorian Maiden, Juliette et Justine, Atelier BOZ, A Lidel.
PUNK LOLITA.
Punk Lolita softens the Johnny Rotten look (chains, plaids, torn fabrics) with girly-girl touches (poofy sleeves, lace trimmings, bell skirts). DESIGNERS: Stone Angel, Sex Pot Revenge, Putumayo, h.NAOTO, Union Jack, Sexy Dynamite.
Other imaginative Lolita styles are:
EROTIC LOLITA. 
Ero Loli clothing is slightly more revealing and inspired by old-time fetish: lace-up corsets, shorter poof skirts, garters. DESIGNERS: Antique Beast.
GURO LOLITA. 
Inspired by broken dollies, these “injured Lolis” make morbidity cute with slings, eyepatches, bandages, and fake blood.
PIRATE LOLITA.
If Jack Sparrow raided Elizabeth Swann’s boudoir… you get the idea.
SAILOR LOLITA.
Another subset with nautical themes, particularly sailor tie-collars and caps.
QI/WA LOLITA.
Qi and Wa Lolis combine ancient Chinese and Japanese styles, respectively, with Lolita elements.
PRINCESS LOLITA.
An extravagant variation that brings back the Rococo and tops it with a tiara.
KODONA.
Boys like to play dress-up too. Kodona (a.k.a. Ouji) boys have closets full of knickerbockers, spats, frock coats, and jabots.
Other mentions are Schoolgirl Lolita (pleated skirts / knee socks) and Deconstructed or Neo-Goth (close to Western Goth but slightly ruffled and layered). Pretty mind-boggling, eh?
WHAT IS GOTHIC/LOLITA FASHION?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita_Fashion
it has more information on Lolita fashion and has very beautiful pictures.
Check out the Pirate Lolita style that is available from Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. The website is http://www.babyssb.co.jp/shopping/pirates/index.html
You can also see photos from the Laforet Paris fashion show at http://www.carmenyuen.com/blog/post/index/69/LAFORET-GOTHIC-LOLITA-FASHION-
EXPO-IN-PARIS
Hope it helps!
GOTH-AND-PUNK-TIES
Also related to gosurori is visual kei style. Male visual kei rockers tend to wear flamboyant Goth-inspired outfits (eg, D'espairs Ray, Velvet Eden, Blood).
Some men cross-dress as Gothic Lolitas, with makeup, skirts, wigs and all (generally in the context of cosplay). I suppose all of the above can be considered "kewl"!







